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My ex, my adult kids and me celebrating the holiday together? I say, “no way,” but he’s pushing for it.
Dear Deb: My ex wants us to get together with our adult children for the holidays like we are all a happy family. He had multiple affairs, and we finally divorced after 32 years. I am not comfortable being with my ex. How do I proceed?Dear Uncomfortable:The holidays are notorious